The way to avoid #disappointments is not to #expect, is it true??
Well as my title question , many of us have gone through this line in their life to be better ,not to expect. But is it true ? I doubt it . In fact many of think the start to expectations is lead to disappointments .
I don’t criticize them to be wrong because definitely they have something why did they agree that . Yes we have our past full of things that crush us, regret us , hurts us or sometimes kills us . Everyone has these past things mostly related to our career,ambitions and most of most about lovelife indeed.
We humans are made to default to expect to hope and to dream about the things we fancy about . We want them badly. It may be position for someone , power for someone , love for someone or some else for someone.
But as we all know life is full of uncertainties and accidents . We didn’t get what we want always. Our hopes are crushed , our expectations are ruined badly . We get vulnerable at times ,that lead to think is it wrong to expect , is it wrong to hope or dream ??
U must dream ,expect and hope . The hopes are what makes us to push towards our goals when we doesn’t have any energy to make A single step.
So what we are disappointed , so what we are rejected , so what someone ruined our dreams that doesn’t mean it was your fault that you were expecting.
As a human being , it is ur right and most important weapon to succeed is the hope indeed. The expectations lead us to try for our goals to be achieved . To go for glory .
She rejected you its her choice , but you loved her and expected love in back , that is not your mistake. You dreamt about something and expected to achieve that with a smile but eventually didn’t got that as way you like to, someone say you failed , may be but that doesn’t make you wrong .
It is not wrong to expect something but it is wrong not to expect again after failure. It is wrong to lose the hope . It is wrong to give up your dream just because you didn’t able to make your expectations.
You will not always come across with your expectations ,your dreams but that doesn’t make sense to decide not to expect again so that we will not get any disappointments again .
That sounds like you decide you will not will not ride the bicycle again because you fallen at first time when you were learning to ride bicycle. You expected you will ride successfully at first time . That expectation lead you to disappointment.
That example may have sounded you very childish but it is fact of life .
We sometimes expect such things which may not happen , though you gather your all efforts , you may fail that may disappoint you but that was not to expect.
It may be sometimes wrong you expected more than more which might be very fictitious and may be impossible. Thats disappoints you and its your fault to expect impossible things .
But it isn’t wrong to expect anyways. That expectations , hopes , dreams keeps you alive . Keeps you energetic even after failure. Supports you in your vulnerable and make you to achieve what you want . That may come after many disappointments but indeed it will come if you logged in with persistence and hardwork .
Remember the example of the great Abraham Lincoln , he had may defeats and rejections in his political and personal life but he stood still like steel . He made those rejections into selections and became the great and most loved president ever indeed.
So as the Thomas Edison who failed more than 1000 times to invent light bulb but at last he succeeded and had 1093 US patents on his name .
So folks it is natural to get expectations and hopes ,it may not come right always but its not out fault that we expected unless and until our expectations were out of world or freakingly nonsense.
So guys always expect ,hope and dream until you achieve it .